All those years my mom was beside herself, not because she had no communication with her youngest son, but because she could not get me under her control.
Sounds like you had a whack job mother like I did. You were fortunate to get away young. . . . I hung around for years, and it wasn't until my wife pointed out how I was being manipulated left and right by her that I finally saw what was going on and cut ties.
Very interesting story, SSC.